转敌对心成慈悲心

原谅人是不容易的，当别人对你蛮不讲理，如何能够心平气和的原谅他呢？
你可以想：他不讲理，我更应该要讲理不要生气，否则气上加气更麻烦。能够用相反的念头来转变对人，事，物的看法，这就是慈悲心。
或是有人无缘无故瞪你一眼，可能是我今天有什么不对劲，他提醒了，我要感谢他。

别人的表情就是我们的镜子，见她面目可憎，自己的面目大概也不太好，所以会遇到这样的人，应该要关怀他。

如果能为他设想，原谅他，可怜他，关怀他就能转敌对心成慈悲心了。

路程

当你走过了一段漫长的路，感觉累了，那么不要勉强自己走下去。

以其勉强会让自己辛苦，为么就不能让自己休息一会，再走下去.

就算勉强，辛苦是自己，到不到目的地还不是白费了吗？

休息是让人更有耐力去走下一段未知的路程。

所以你啊！累了就不要勉强自己。好好的休息。

才有足够的耐力去拼！

等

等夏天 等秋天 等下个季节
有等到月亮变全你才回到我身边
要不要再见面 没办法还是想念
突然想看你的脸 熟悉的感觉。。。

只想让你知道 我现在很好
只想让你知道 放不下也忘不了
你的笑 你的好 是我温暖的依靠。。。

我失去。但我没有失落

一段爱情毁灭了，要如何让我相信下一段回是更好的？更可靠？不会让我更心疼？
我累了...让人真停留吧！
现在可以快快乐乐，平平凡凡的过我的每一天...
反而遇到一个让我觉得很傻的人。让我的每一天都那么的开心。谢啦。
从中我也体会到亲情和友情没离开过。好爱你们咯！

顽固

只有顽固的人，才听不懂人话。

So close yet so far ..

So close yet so far ..

The valentine

Today is the special day for all the love one,specially to the people can celebrate this important day with their love one...

For me ?? I'm not single ,but my bf n I were long distance relationship... So,everytime we also delay our special valentine day.. Abit dissapointed ,but no choice , coZ the distance .... Hmmmm,however I always wish one day we really can together celebrate ..

Valentine is not a gift ,not a kiss, not a hug , not a candle light dinner .. IS HOW WE MAINTAIN OUR RELATIONSHIP , n how we build it stronger .. With love Valentine always there , without love , how much for the gift oso meaningless ... However,214 is a special day for those love one to appreciate n share their love ,n look back how they work for the relationship thru all the year... Give a gift to each other is to reward him/her for the whole yr how much they did well for the partner.... *the gift no specify must be huge bouquet Roses , expensive .. * a simple n suit for him/her is the best gift . Are u agree??


Me?? I Dont know how to choose a best gift for him. But I wan him always remember that no matter wat happen I'm still there for him n no matter what's I also like to fight for my right n wan listen to me.. So I did this for him.. A photo frame which I hand made..

But do he love this? Shud ask from
Him. I have no idea ..




Guess what? I receive his Ferrero "flower"bouquet in the saloon .. What a surprise ?? He filled up my day with lots of love . I can't really believe that he told me nth will receive on my valentine,but then I receive his surprise again .!! 😘
Happy valentine !